More Than a Ring - Symbols, Surprises, and Inscriptions That Matter
When it comes to weddings, there's something timeless and meaningful about exchanging rings. That quiet, beautiful moment where two people slip simple bands onto each other's fingers is often one of the most emotional parts of the ceremony. But have you ever paused to think about what those rings truly represent—and whether you'd do things the traditional way or create your own twist?
At Cynthia Green Celebrant Services, we’ve seen couples embrace every possible version of that moment. For some, rings are a must—a symbol of eternity, unity, and enduring love. For others, the tradition is ripe for reimagining. What matters most is that your ceremony reflects you.
Choosing Together—or a Beautiful Surprise
There's something lovely about shopping for rings together. It can be a special outing that becomes a cherished memory in itself—trying on designs, sharing ideas, and finding that perfect pair that feels just right. For many couples, this is a joyful part of the planning process, full of laughter and shared excitement.
But others prefer a surprise. One person picks the rings, maybe even designing something unique, and presents them on the day. There’s real romance in that—a statement of trust, thoughtfulness, and love. I'm actually doing just that - surprising my partner with a ring they haven’t seen yet. It adds a beautiful layer of anticipation to the day. Will they love it? I think they will, because it’s been chosen with care and intention.
Inscriptions That Speak Volumes
One of the most meaningful touches you can add to a wedding ring is an inscription. It might be a date, a name, or a private phrase that only the two of you understand. A tiny message, hidden from the world but known to you both, makes your ring uniquely yours.
Some couples go classic—Forever Yours, To the Moon and Back, or simply initials and a date. Others lean into the quirky or deeply personal. One couple I worked with had a line from the song they danced to on their first date engraved inside their rings. Another had a shared joke they’d laughed about for years.
I love inscriptions because they tell a story. They’re quiet, but powerful. They remind you, in the most intimate way, why you chose each other.
Or Perhaps… No Ring at All?
And then there are those who want something different altogether. Not everyone wears rings, for all sorts of reasons. Maybe it's discomfort, lifestyle, or simply personal preference. The good news? Symbols of commitment can be anything you choose.
Some couples opt for a necklace or bracelet. Others have matching tattoos, or exchange special keepsakes—a watch, a locket, a handcrafted item that holds meaning. I once conducted a ceremony where the couple poured sand from two different places they'd lived into a glass bottle, blending their lives together in a way that was utterly them.
The beauty of a celebrant-led ceremony is that it can be completely personal. Want to include a handfasting ritual instead of rings? Go for it. Prefer to recite vows without an exchange of jewellery? That’s perfectly valid. It’s your moment, your way.
A Bond Beyond the Band
What matters most in any ceremony is the connection you share—not just with each other, but with the person guiding you through it. That’s why I always take the time to really get to know my couples. I want you to feel relaxed, understood, and deeply seen on your special day. And I want you to look back on your ceremony and smile—not just because it was beautiful, but because it felt truly yours.
Whether you're planning a grand wedding or a simple elopement, in London or abroad, I'm here to help you shape a moment that reflects everything you love, believe in, and hope for.
So, what would your ring say? Or perhaps, what symbol would you choose instead?
Whatever you decide, make sure it speaks from the heart. For all other services come to Cynthia Green.